Navigating Property and Money Division Post-Separation
Separation can be a challenging time, especially when it comes to dividing money and property. Whether you were married or in a de facto relationship, understanding how to fairly distribute your assets is crucial.

Separating from a partner is a lot to hold at once, and sorting out money and property can feel like the hardest part. The good news is that the process in Australia follows a clear structure, and you do not have to work it all out in your head. This guide walks through how property is divided after a marriage or de facto relationship ends, what changed under the family law reforms that took effect on 10 June 2025, and the practical steps that make the path smoother. It is general information only, not legal or financial advice for your situation.
What counts as property
In family law, property is broader than just the family home. It covers everything you and your former partner own, owe, or have an interest in, no matter whose name it sits under. That includes the family home and any other real estate, cash and bank accounts, shares and investments, vehicles, businesses, and personal belongings. It also includes superannuation, which is treated as property that can be valued and split.
Just as importantly, property includes debts and liabilities such as mortgages, personal loans, car finance, credit cards, and tax owing. The starting point is your net asset pool: what is owned, minus what is owed. Financial resources that are not strictly owned, such as an expected interest in a trust, can also be relevant.
This applies whether you were married or in a de facto relationship. The two are treated under the same broad principles, with some differences in the relevant sections of the Family Law Act 1975 and in the time limits that apply.
How a fair division is worked out
Since 10 June 2025, the Family Law Act sets out a clear, codified framework for dividing property. It reflects the approach the courts had already developed over many years, now written plainly into the legislation. The same structure is a useful guide even if you never go near a courtroom, because most couples reach agreement themselves.
The framework works through these steps:
- Identify and value the net property pool. List all assets, liabilities, and financial resources held by either or both of you, and work out what they are worth now.
- Assess each person's contributions. This includes financial contributions such as income and savings, non-financial contributions such as renovations, and contributions as a homemaker or parent. The law is clear that caring for children and running a home count alongside earning money.
- Consider each person's current and future circumstances. Relevant factors include age, health, income and earning capacity, care of children, and the standard of living that is reasonable.
- Check that the outcome is just and equitable. The overall result must be fair in all the circumstances. There is no automatic 50/50 split, and the percentage in any case depends on its own facts.
A significant change from June 2025 is that the law now expressly requires the effect of family violence to be taken into account. The court considers how any family violence may have affected a person's ability to contribute during the relationship, and how it affects their current and future circumstances. If this is part of your situation, it is worth raising with a lawyer early.
How pets are treated
The 2025 reforms also introduced specific rules for companion animals, such as the family dog or cat, in cases involving married couples. If you cannot agree on who keeps a pet, a court can decide that question, considering factors such as who acquired and cared for the animal, who paid for its needs, and where it has been living since separation. A court cannot order shared custody of a pet. For de facto couples, pets are generally treated as part of the wider property pool.
Superannuation
Superannuation is often one of the largest assets in a relationship, so it usually forms part of the settlement. It can be valued and split between former partners under a superannuation splitting order. Splitting super does not turn it into cash. The amount stays within the superannuation system and remains subject to the usual rules about when it can be accessed, generally on reaching preservation age and retirement.
If you formalise a super split through consent orders, there is a procedural step to remember: a copy of the proposed orders must be sent to the super fund trustee at least 28 days before they are filed with the court, so the trustee has a chance to comment.
Putting your agreement in writing
Many couples reach agreement without going to court, and the law encourages that. There are three common ways to deal with a settlement, and they differ in how secure they are.
- Informal agreement. A private understanding between the two of you. It is simple, but it is not legally binding and does not protect you if circumstances change or a dispute arises later. It also does not access the tax relief described below.
- Consent orders. Orders that you both agree on and ask the court to approve. They are made without a hearing in most cases, but once approved they are orders of the court and are legally binding and enforceable.
- Binding financial agreement. A formal written contract made under the Family Law Act. Each person must get independent legal advice from an Australian lawyer before signing, which is a legal requirement for the agreement to be valid.
Formalising a settlement through consent orders or a binding financial agreement gives both people certainty and finality, which an informal arrangement cannot. Independent legal advice is essential for either route.
The duty to be open about your finances
From 10 June 2025, the duty of disclosure is written directly into the Family Law Act. Each person must give full and frank disclosure of their financial circumstances, including all income, property, and other financial resources, as well as certain dealings with property in the period around separation. This duty starts before any court proceedings and continues until the matter is finalised. Being open and organised from the start tends to make the whole process faster and less stressful.
Tax and Centrelink
Transferring assets can have tax consequences. When assets are transferred between former partners under a court order, consent orders, or a binding financial agreement, the capital gains tax relationship breakdown rollover may apply, which generally defers capital gains tax until a later sale. This rollover does not apply to assets divided under an informal, private agreement, which is one more reason to formalise. Tax outcomes can be complex, so professional advice is worthwhile.
You should also tell Services Australia when your relationship status changes, as it can affect Centrelink payments. Receiving a lump sum or assets from a settlement may change your entitlements, so it is best to update your details promptly. If you and your former partner are still living under one roof, there are specific forms for that situation.
Time limits to keep in mind
You do not have to be divorced to sort out property. You can begin a property settlement as soon as you separate, and you can finalise it before any divorce. Keep these deadlines in mind:
- If you were married, you must apply to the court for property orders within 12 months of your divorce becoming final.
- If you were in a de facto relationship, you must apply within two years of the date you separated.
- A divorce itself requires that you have been separated for at least 12 months, but, again, property settlement does not have to wait for the divorce.
Applying outside these limits is possible only with the court's permission, which is not guaranteed, so it pays to act in good time.
A calmer way to see your position
Understanding how property is divided is the first step toward a settlement that feels fair and final. Separately gives you a clear, structured assessment of your situation so you can approach conversations and advice with more confidence. It is a starting point for clarity, not a substitute for the independent legal advice that any formal settlement, whether consent orders or a binding financial agreement, will need. Take it one step at a time, and reach out for support when you need it.
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